UNIVERSAL LANGUAGE- LOVE

       
    I chose to write about something too controversial to discuss. LOVE .What is love? Am not here to talk about the chemistry between boy and girl. I just don't wanna make it so dramatic or cinematical. 
     
  Love is felt so magical. Love should be unconditional. Love is being respectful. Love is an healing therapy.and its an reminder of who you are. Its not a distraction. It's an attention. The attention that mother shows on her baby, the attention that teacher shows on his/her student, the attention an individual gives in listening their friends stories and problems. Love can be anything and in any form. Everyone have their own definition for love. 
       
  But I have come across a definition which made so much sense. "Love is putting someone's need before ours". Better Communication is the most important component in any sort of relationship. Misunderstandings do arise when there is a lack of communication. 
      
  But there do arise cracks in relationships. Not once or twice but, every single time, "Be the first person to put down your ego and initiate talking." Don't be numb which will make you regret in future. Always let the time heal the cracks. But do remember there is a thin line between ego and self respect. Put down your ego but not your self respect for anyone. When they make you put down your self respect that's where the person fails their worth to be your love. 
      
  Never be ashamed of how deeply or unconditionally you loved someone who betrayed or destroyed your love and trust. That defines them and loving unconditionally is who you are. Also remember , 'BE THE LOVE YOU NEVER RECEIVED' 

 I know I'll be judged for sure that am in a relationship. I just don't care.    

                                                                                                                               with love,
                                                 Ms.affable❤.

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